Four Sensual Ideas To Try In Your Bedroom Tonight - BONUS episode

[00:00:00] Speaker A: We are thrilled to partner with xns who are all about making your sexual experience the best it can be. [00:00:08] Speaker B: Xsens has an amazing fall in love giveaway valued at over $700 that we'll tell you about about halfway through our podcast. [00:00:18] Speaker A: Yeah, Xenz is so wonderful. [00:00:21] Speaker C: We love what Xsens is doing for your sensual and sexual experience. [00:00:26] Speaker D: Welcome to the Sensational Sex podcast where we help women in long term relationships thrive after the honeymoon stage is over. Are you a woman who wants a deep, intimate, and satisfying connection with her partner? Of course you do. Amy Rowan and doctor Trina Reed have the answers, and all you have to. [00:00:50] Speaker A: Do is join us each week. [00:00:53] Speaker D: Soon you'll be that woman who effortlessly has a satisfying sex life. Follow us on social media at sensationalsexpodcast. Share this episode leave a review and thank you for subscribing. [00:01:09] Speaker A: Now let's start the show. [00:01:12] Speaker C: Hello beautiful people. I'm Amy Rowan and thank you for listening to the sensational sex podcast. We're so happy that you're joining us. [00:01:22] Speaker A: I'm doctor Trina Reid, and even though your sex life will never be perfect, you can create the sex life that is perfect for you. And we're here to help you with that. [00:01:33] Speaker C: We have a special bonus podcast for you. Do you want to bring new ideas into the bedroom, but you don't even know what that should be or where to start? Then keep listening. We've got you covered. [00:01:48] Speaker A: Initiation rituals are small habits that create positive triggers to help you associate sex with positive feelings, and their power lies in you getting out of your head and into your body while teaching you to slow down. [00:02:06] Speaker C: Initiation rituals help to create your positive anticipation, and this is going to rev the motor on your response. Responsive desire we also call these sexual desire accelerators. [00:02:19] Speaker A: So too many couples expect sex to be spontaneous, so when they spontaneously go into the bedroom, they end up having the same sex over and over again and soon find themselves stuck in a sex rut. So with just a tiny bit of planning, you can tap into your unique pleasure spectrum and create a juicy sensual experience that is unique to you. [00:02:46] Speaker C: I have a lot of pro tips to share with you during this podcast, and my first pro tip is busy couples who want to keep sensuality on their radar have a code word or a phrase that they use to signal interest, like want to get some Starbucks? [00:03:06] Speaker A: So what you're saying is code words or phrases become a trigger for their happy sexual memories because they remember the pleasurable experience attached to it, which then helps to kickstart their desire. [00:03:22] Speaker C: Exactly one of my initiation rituals. And this one is a little odd, but hear me out. It's turning on the bathroom fan. [00:03:32] Speaker A: Okay, that's really sexy, Amy. Turning right. Like, I'm feeling it. I'm feeling. [00:03:38] Speaker C: It was like, bathroom fan. Like, I thought you were going to talk about some toy or something like that. But here's the thing. My husband knows that I worry if the kids can hear us. And so he turns on the bathroom fans. And now when I hear that noise, it gets me going. [00:03:55] Speaker A: Yeah, there's nothing like a sexual turn off to see little fingers underneath the bedroom door. [00:04:01] Speaker C: Yeah, that will kill the mood. [00:04:02] Speaker B: Drink. [00:04:02] Speaker A: Not that that's ever happened to me. [00:04:06] Speaker C: I don't know. Sounds like you're speaking from experience. [00:04:09] Speaker A: So those are really great examples of how simple an initiation ritual can be and that planning does not have to take a lot of time and effort. [00:04:20] Speaker C: And the power in creating initiation rituals is that they give you a tactile body response. And this is going to help calm your swirling thoughts. It starts with you paying attention to just one of your five senses. Touch, smell, taste, hearing, or seeing. Barbara Careless said, your five senses bring in an extraordinary amount of primal information in a split second. [00:04:50] Speaker A: So to help you tap into your five senses, we want to share our four favorite sensuality products from our amazing sponsors. So the first one is the hot kiss lip gels. Oh, there it is. The second is the aromatherapy massage oils. The third one are arousal gels. And the final fourth one is water based lubricants. [00:05:24] Speaker C: I've been in the pleasure industry for over 14 years and I've learned what my clients love in the bedroom because they keep coming back for more. And we cannot wait to tell you how these are going to elevate your bedroom experiences to a soulful and juicy sensual experience. [00:05:42] Speaker A: We asked Xenz to give their best pro tips for each of these products. But if you're curious and want to check these products out right now for yourself, go to the xens dash uSa.com website, use the coupon code sensational and get a 20% off. [00:06:02] Speaker C: So let's talk about the hot kiss lip gel first. There's a reason that kissing stops for a lot of women in long term relationships. Your brain is going 1000 miles an hour. And if your partner kisses you, it's really hard to stay in the moment. Here's where you need to turn kissing into something that helps to increase your desire. [00:06:25] Speaker A: So when you pay attention to what you can feel, hear, smell, taste and see, it's called a grounding practice. And it's a mindfulness technique that can help you get out of your head and be more attuned to what's actually happening in the moment when your partner. [00:06:44] Speaker C: Kisses you and your brain starts to go into overdrive. Tell yourself stop, and then shift your focus to your partner and their lips. And this way, kissing becomes a mindful activity where you're tuning into your senses and theirs, which makes that moment more fun, special, and satisfying. [00:07:07] Speaker A: And so this is so much easier to do when you have a signal or something to help you ground. Like XN's hot kiss lip gel. Oh, there goes Amy. She's putting it on. How's it feel, Amyde? [00:07:22] Speaker C: I love how tingly and yummy it tastes. And it makes my lips feel super soft and kissable. James liked it too. [00:07:30] Speaker A: I bet he did. So which flavor is your favorite, Amy? I love the coconut pot kiss. [00:07:37] Speaker C: I am definitely a strawberry kind of girl. [00:07:40] Speaker A: Your ultimate lip adventure awaits. Elevate your makeup game with the exhilarating blend of warmth, tingling, and delectable flavors. [00:07:50] Speaker C: And experience the magic as this vegan arousal lip gel heats up every kiss and it's going to take your oral game to the next level. You're going to feel this gentle, warming buzz upon application, and then that is going to be followed by a refreshing, cooling tingle. [00:08:10] Speaker A: And I really love the hot kiss arousal kissing gel because it's body safe. Meaning it's okay to kiss intimate areas when you have this on so you can indulge in worry free romance. Knowing that both lip gels are body safe, condom friendly, and paraben free. [00:08:29] Speaker C: I love hearing that. It's really reassuring knowing that products that are going near intimate areas of my body are body safe. [00:08:36] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:37] Speaker C: And hot kiss is a really great product for you if you're new to bringing things into the bedroom and you just want to try something that is easy. [00:08:45] Speaker A: Yeah. Because sometimes when you don't know how to bring things in, you know, this is just, you just put this on your lips and then you kiss your partner. I mean, that's not hard. You could do that right this second. I find this is a really easy way to move into bringing new ideas into the bedroom. [00:09:02] Speaker C: Absolutely. [00:09:03] Speaker A: Here's Xn's pro tip. Hot kiss is amazing for making out, but it's also quite nice for oral sex. And it isn't glossy, so anyone can put it on without feeling too girly. So we suggest that you and your partner both try it and see where your tingling kisses take you. [00:09:23] Speaker C: Here's my pro tip. Did you know that it's possible to experience an orgasm with just nipple stimulation. This is called a nipplegasm. And many men, especially, get very turned on with nipple play. So put some hot kiss on your lips before kissing your partner's nipples, or apply it directly to their nipples for a hot and cool sensation that will send them reeling. And for women, sometimes our nipples become very desensitized from things like bras and breastfeeding. And this can help bring those sensations back. [00:09:59] Speaker A: Yeah, sometimes it just takes a little tiny bit just to awaken your body. It doesn't, it's not much, but it's, it's that grounding exercise that we talked about, you know, like just bringing a little bit of attention to the areas of your body. And all of a sudden, your desire and arousal are sparked and you're like, hey, this feels good. [00:10:20] Speaker C: Yeah, that's the best way to get out of your head, is just focusing on pleasurable sensations. And focusing on those five senses is the first step of that. [00:10:29] Speaker A: So now we're going to move on to the crystal massage oils. So what is an aromatherapy massage? [00:10:37] Speaker C: Aromatherapy is the use of essential oils for certain benefits. It can reduce anxiety, it can promote a sense of tranquility, and it can enhance overall well being. But does it really work? [00:10:51] Speaker A: Well, just to get a little bit technical. So stay with me. Stay with me during this. So when you breathe in a scent like aromatherapy massage oils, it engages the olfactory, primal part of your brain. So these odors then directly wrap to the limbic system, including the amygdala and hippocampus, which are related to emotion and memory. And why is that important? [00:11:19] Speaker C: Well, don Goldwyrm said, smell and emotion are stored as one memory. Here's an example. Have you ever smelled something that immediately flashed you back to a moment in your childhood? Maybe apple pie sent you right back into your grandmother's kitchen? This is one of my favorite sex hacks. You can create a powerful sexual memory associated with ascent, a time when you took charge of your sexual experience and made it into what you wanted it to be. [00:11:51] Speaker A: So everyone loves a good massage. And an aromatherapy massage combines gentle massage and inhaling aromatic essential oils that create a soothing and calming effect on your body and your mind. So sometimes massage can be about relaxing, and sometimes it can be about being sensual. The good news is you don't have to be an expert to enjoy the benefits of massage at home. So here's a few ideas to get you started. [00:12:22] Speaker C: When massaging your partner, trust your intuition. Run your hands along the body with gentle strokes. And if you see your partner relaxing and enjoying, then repeat that stroke. If your partner grimaces or if they look uncomfortable, it's probably time to move to another area or change the pressure. [00:12:42] Speaker A: With aromatherapy, massage preparation is key, so make sure you have XN's crystal massage oils at hand so the application is seamless, making for a relaxed and comfortable experience. And the bonus is XN's massage oils come in a convenient spill proof bottle. And Amy, having a spill proof bottle if you've ever given a massage, having a spill proof bottle is such a smart thing to do, it's going to. [00:13:10] Speaker C: Knock over on the bed. It is 100% inevitable. [00:13:15] Speaker A: Now, we haven't given you a lot of tips, so if you are still unsure about how to massage, we're going to link some massage videos in the show notes below. [00:13:24] Speaker C: And when the massage is over, let your partner relax. Let them take their time getting up and hopefully they're in a state of maximum relaxation. Allow them to lay still for a while and take that opportunity to do some relaxing yourself. [00:13:40] Speaker A: So just to shift this conversation a tiny bit, we're going to get back to the scent part of the aromatherapy part of massage. And there are a lot of essential oils that do a lot of wonderful things, but it also can be confusing and a lot of work to understand what essential oil combinations do what luckily, Xenz has taken the guesswork out. [00:14:04] Speaker C: Xen's amethyst sweet almond crystal massage oil or carnelian apricot crystal massage oil are light, absorbent, and delicately scented. They're perfect for a relaxing, stress relieving, sensual massage. [00:14:22] Speaker A: Formulated with sweet almond oil, these blends of pure, natural botanicals will leave skin feeling nourished. Soft, smooth, and no need to wash this off. Amethyst sweet almond has soft accents of vanilla and dusty rose. [00:14:40] Speaker C: Carnelian apricot has soft accents of white, grape, black currant, iris, and violets, and both oils are 100% natural with no artificial fragrances. [00:14:53] Speaker A: So you might be asking what makes Xen's massage oils different from other massage oils on the market now. Do you believe in crystal energy, Amy? [00:15:05] Speaker C: I mean, I've heard a lot about it. I feel like it's something I haven't explored a lot. This might just be the right opportunity to do that. [00:15:11] Speaker A: Well, Xenz believes in it, and that's why they've included a stunning amethyst or carnelian crystal every bottle. [00:15:21] Speaker C: It's said that amethyst will cleanse negative energies and activate your spiritual awareness it. [00:15:28] Speaker A: Is said that Carnelian will help to restore vitality and motivation, giving courage and promoting positive life choices. I'm going to try that one tonight because I think I need a little carnelian energy right now. [00:15:44] Speaker C: I think we all need some of that. Here is the pro tip from xcens. These massage oils also make great body oils. Sometimes taking a minute to take care of yourself, moisturizing your skin with lovely scented oil and luxuriating in the moment is all that you need to get in the mood and to get in touch with your body. [00:16:08] Speaker A: Excellent pro tip. And my pro tip is sometimes women just want a massage that does not lead to sex. Can I hear an amen? [00:16:18] Speaker C: Amen. [00:16:19] Speaker A: Yeah. And if this is you, you should not feel guilty about asking for your sensual needs to be met. Sex does not always have to mean intercourse and when you're able to mix your intercourse with sensuality, suddenly you and your partner are a lot more keen to have this juicy new sex. [00:16:42] Speaker C: We'll take a 1 minute make happy sex memories with and extend motivate me. 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[00:18:33] Speaker A: So if you're curious to check out the xcens products for yourself, go to the xsens dash uSa.com website and use the coupon code sensational and get 20% off. [00:18:47] Speaker C: Has there ever been a time in your relationship when your partner was giving you that look? You know the one? Maybe they were rubbing your leg or they were nuzzling your neck and you knew what was on their mind, but it was the last thing on yours. [00:19:05] Speaker A: Yeah. I've been married for 22 years, Amy, and I know exactly what you're. What you're talking about. [00:19:11] Speaker C: Yeah, exactly. We have all been there, and sometimes we just need a little bit of motivation to go from EHDHDH to. Yeah. And that's why I absolutely love the Xenz cooling arousal gel. This pleasure enhancer, with its almost instant cooling effect, will accelerate your orgasmic bliss when applied to your intimate areas. It's yummy, it's kissable, and it will strongly increase your libido and it makes all of your intimate play even more pleasurable. [00:19:45] Speaker A: So I'm an academic and for me, I always need proof about whether this is actually working or not. And you might be asking, does this arousal gel actually do what it says that it does? So I dug into the research, and in one study conducted by the center for Marital and Sexual Health, 67 sexually functional women aged 20 to 70 years were instructed to use arousal gel with intercourse at least three times over a three week period. [00:20:20] Speaker C: Either the woman or her partner was to gently massage the gel onto the clitoris prior to initiation, and the subjects completed a female sexual well being questionnaire prior to their first use of the gel and after their final use. [00:20:37] Speaker A: There were significant improvements in most components of the questionnaire, with the largest changes noted as sexual arousal, lubrication, orgasm and satisfaction. [00:20:51] Speaker C: There was a second study and this was conducted by the New England Research Institute, and this one included 500 sexually active heterosexual women between the ages of 18 and 59. And following a one week trial, subjects completed a 65 question online survey. [00:21:12] Speaker A: According to the study, arousal gel was positively assessed on virtually all dimensions, with 79% of respondents noting the product met or exceeded expectations. [00:21:25] Speaker C: 78% of the respondents reported increased sensitivity in their genital area, and of these, over 90% believed the gel made their intimate experience better. [00:21:37] Speaker A: Most agreed that the gel enhanced arousal, orgasmic intensity, pleasure and satisfaction during sexual activity. You know, that sounds like a pretty strong motivation to try the arousal gel. Amy, I don't know about you, but I'm like, yes, yes, I do want to try this now. [00:21:57] Speaker C: Absolutely. And it is super easy to use. All you need to do is apply a small drop and it pumps out the perfect amount for you. [00:22:06] Speaker A: Can I just say that I just want to note that it's a really small bottle, which I think is a nice thing when you have it on your bedside table, it's not something big and clunky. You can just pull out a drawer and it's this tiny little bottle. But why is it such a small bottle? [00:22:21] Speaker C: It's a small bottle because you only need to use a very small amount. So that's to remind you to use a small drop. It's going to pump out the perfect amount for you. And I also highly recommend that you, as the woman, keeps this on your side of the bed because I can almost guarantee that your partner is going to think it's a lubricant and they're going to pump out way too much. They're going to be like, yeah, yeah. They're like, pump, pump, pump. No. One pump is all you need. Remember, you can always add more if you need it, but in order to get it off, you need to take a shower. So start with a little bit and add more as you need it. And that will help you discover intense and explosive sensations. And there's up to a hundred uses in this tiny little bottle. [00:23:07] Speaker A: So you take a drop and you can put it on your clitoris or labia or the penis or your nipples. You're going to feel an intense cooling sensation that's going to arouse your senses. [00:23:20] Speaker C: My favorite product tester told me that it felt like an electric sensation on his nipples. [00:23:27] Speaker A: Just, James is such a good sport for trying these out. What a nice guy. [00:23:33] Speaker C: I know. It's a rough life being married to a sexologist, isn't it? And the other thing, like all extends products, is it's body safe. It's vegan, paraben free, preservative free, sugar free, condom friendly. And there's no petroleum based ingredients. The raspberry. It's fruity and cooling. [00:23:56] Speaker A: And are there any coffee lovers out there? So you're going to want to try the yummy hot vanilla espresso arousal gel, which provides an intense cooling sensation while treating you to the delicious vanilla latte flavor that you love. [00:24:12] Speaker C: And it's really delicious. Again, from my product tester, are you dreaming of an exotic vacation? Then you're going to want to try this sweet ginger explosion with Xen's fresh ginger lychee flavor. [00:24:27] Speaker A: So you might be asking yourself if the xen's arousal gel is a good fit for you. And it is if you love cooling sensation or are curious to see what that feels like. And who isn't curious to know what that feels like. [00:24:44] Speaker C: So here is my pro tip. The best foreplay starts when you wake up. Keep that buzz going all day long. Apply a little arousal gel in the morning, and whenever you go to the bathroom throughout the day, that's gonna keep that tingling, buzzy sensation going between your legs. And when you finally tumble into bed, you will be raring to go. [00:25:08] Speaker A: It's about anticipation, right when you can start anticipating sex way ahead of time. And so we talk about this as sex xDev, but how do we actually do it? I think that's a great tip, Amy, for sure. [00:25:19] Speaker C: Thank you. [00:25:20] Speaker A: And the Xenz Pro tip is Xen's cooling arousal gels are strong and can be a bit surprising the first time you use one. So use just a drop to start and you can always add more. And it's best to apply this yourself, ladies, because as we already talked about, your partner might just get carried away in the heat of the moment. And in this situation, less is more. [00:25:48] Speaker C: On to our last Xen's product. If your sex life feels a little blah, a fun way to spice things up in the bedroom is with Ixen's flavored water based lubricants. So you might be thinking, what is the point of a flavored lube? [00:26:07] Speaker A: So a flavored lube combines tasty flavors like raspberry. And it's going to make your oral sex and body exploration a lot more fun and steamier. [00:26:21] Speaker C: It's going to help you not rush into sex by turning foreplay into an adventure. Suddenly, your body is a feast for your partner's taste buds. And one thing I want to mention, because traditionally I have not been a big fan of flavored lubes. I usually find them to be a little bit too sweet or too strong. But all of the extension products that I've tried, I actually really love the taste and I don't find them to be distracting or too much. So I really, really enjoy it. It's just enough flavor without being overwhelming nice. So you might also be asking if flavored lube is safe. And yes, it is safe to use if you use it correctly. So here's some ideas. [00:27:03] Speaker A: So the first place would be with oral sex. So flavored lube is best when tasting your partner with your mouth. So go ahead and apply any you want to look, including the penis, the vulva, and maybe the anus. [00:27:19] Speaker C: Take it slow and use your flavored lube on all of your partner's erogenous zones during foreplay, neck, thighs, nipples, or other erogenous zones like the small of their back. [00:27:31] Speaker A: I always like to think of an erogenous zone as the bendy places. You know, like the bend, like any place that you can bend a. Like, behind the knees, like a bendy place. Like those are erogenous zones that we just never think about, but. [00:27:45] Speaker C: Yeah, and they're the bendy places. [00:27:47] Speaker A: See what happens? [00:27:49] Speaker C: Yeah. No, that's a great tip because all of those areas are very, very sensitive. So that's a great. I never thought about that. [00:27:56] Speaker A: And make sure to try the flavored lubricant while kissing. So surprise your partner with a sexy makeout that tastes like raspberry or appletini. [00:28:06] Speaker C: That one is my favorite. Here's a really fun game to try. I love this one. Grab a blindfold and play a game of name that taste. See if your partner can identify both the flavor and the body part that they're licking. [00:28:21] Speaker A: Or another one along the same lines. You can put the lube in four different areas of your body and ask your partner to keep licking until they find a all five. [00:28:32] Speaker C: Oh, that's sneaky. I love that one. The ingredients are pristine and top notch. NXcens was nominated for XBIZ sex lube company of the year this year. [00:28:45] Speaker A: Wow. And Appletini water based lubricant received the XBIZ Sex Lubricant of the year award in 2023. And you're gonna love this delicious flavor. That is an award winner. [00:28:57] Speaker C: I already said that. That was my fav. Another fave is the aloe vera water based lubricant. And this has organic aloe vera extract. [00:29:07] Speaker A: It's rich in vitamins, minerals, amino acids and antioxidants. Aloe vera is known throughout the world for its soothing properties, particularly when applied to the skin. [00:29:21] Speaker C: So how do you know if flavored lube is right for you? If you have any respect for your taste buds, then the answer should absolutely be yes. But if you aren't into flavors, then I cannot recommend the aloe lubricants highly enough. [00:29:36] Speaker A: And the xen's lubricant and flavor lubricants are FDA cleared, which is a really big deal. So when you have an FDA stamp of approval, you know what you're putting on and inside your body is going to be safe. [00:29:52] Speaker C: So here is my pro tip. If you're experiencing a lot of vaginal dryness, use the aloe lubricant as a daily vaginal moisturizer. Apply it morning and night, and then pick up the flavored lube for when you're getting busy in between the sheets. By the way, did I mention the appletini? [00:30:10] Speaker A: Yeah, you did mention it a few times. [00:30:12] Speaker C: I like that one. It's kind of my fav. [00:30:16] Speaker A: So here's my pro tip. Flavored lubricant is such an easy way to introduce an entirely new sensory experience into your sex play. [00:30:26] Speaker C: And here's the xen's pro tip. Everything is better with Lube. [00:30:31] Speaker A: We agree with Xen's. We agree with Xen. Everything is better with Lube. [00:30:36] Speaker C: Wetter is better. And if you're bringing toys into the bedroom, a good water based lubricant is even more important. It's not about replacing your wetness, it's about enhancing your entire experience. So have fun with it. [00:30:52] Speaker A: Absolutely. You know, I've learned a lot from this podcast, Amy, and I think it's time for us to wrap things up. [00:31:00] Speaker C: So here are four things that you learned about bringing new ideas into your bedroom that can easily take your sensuality to the next level. [00:31:10] Speaker A: So the first thing we talked about was the hotkiss arousal lip gels, which will elevate your makeout game with the exhilarating blend of warmth, tingling, and delectable flavors. So you're going to feel the gentle, warming buzz when you apply it, followed by a refreshing, cooling tingle, and you can kiss your partner all over their body. [00:31:33] Speaker C: The crystal aromatherapy massage oils extends includes stunning amethyst or carnelian crystals in every bottle. Amethyst is known for its cleansing and purification qualities and this will help cleanse negative energies and activate your spiritual awareness. Carnelian will help restore vitality and motivation and help give you courage and promote positive life choices. And a favorite scent can become a brain hack to increase arousal just by putting out the same spill proof bottle the next time. [00:32:10] Speaker A: The third thing we talked about was the cooling arousal gel. So this pleasure enhancer will optimize your orgasmic bliss. When applied to intimate areas, the fresh, kissable formula strongly increases libido and makes intimate play even more pleasurable because sometimes you need a little motivation to get you from Mehdeh to oh yeah, and this arousal gel is going to get you there faster. [00:32:37] Speaker C: And last, the flavored water based lubricants. Xen's water based lubricant has won awards and is FDA approved. [00:32:47] Speaker A: So you yes, you. You need to tap into your sensuality. So go right this second to the Xens dash uSa.com website and use the coupon code sensational and get 20% off. Amy hot sensual, toe curling sex and a discount. It doesn't get much better than that. [00:33:10] Speaker C: And not only are you helping your sexual experience, but this is also one of the best ways that you can help support our podcast. So absolutely check out xcens and check out our sponsor because we are so grateful for them for supporting us. Until next time, stay sexy on next. [00:33:29] Speaker B: Week'S episode of the Sensational Sex podcast, did you know that the sexual choices that you make before, during, and after sex determines how you feel about the sex that you're currently having? [00:33:43] Speaker A: Your sexual choices are behind the wheel and driving your sexual experience. [00:33:51] Speaker B: Hi, I'm Amy Rowan, the suburban sexologist. [00:33:54] Speaker A: And I'm doctor Trina Reid and we're so happy to help your sexuality thrive after the honeymoon stage is over. [00:34:02] Speaker B: In this episode of the Sensational Sex podcast, you'll find out how taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them. And this is your ticket to sexual freedom. [00:34:17] Speaker A: And during our sex IQ segment, we had a very interesting discussion about Yoni massage. [00:34:26] Speaker B: If you don't like the sex that you're currently having, we're going to share how you can make different choices to get different sexual results. [00:34:35] Speaker A: Make sure to listen to the sensational sex podcast where we give you the tools to create a sex life that is fulfilling for you. 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